https://seunghoonchoi.com/tags/goodness/Recent content in Goodness on Seunghoon ChoiHugoen-USSun, 21 Jun 2026 18:49:42 +0900https://seunghoonchoi.com/column/conditional-generosity/Sun, 21 Jun 2026 18:49:42 +0900https://seunghoonchoi.com/column/conditional-generosity/<p><img src="https://seunghoonchoi.com/images/col-conditional-generosity.jpg" alt="A hand reaching into a warm sunset sky, cupping the sun"></p> <p class="inline-image-caption">Kindness is not an attitude that eliminates all boundaries, but an attitude that clearly informs the other person of the behavior that should not be crossed.</p> <p>I want to live as a good person. But honestly, sometimes I also want to curse someone out. I want to repay the person who hurts me in the same way, and sometimes I want to talk behind their back. One side of me says, &ldquo;Still, be good.&rdquo; The other side asks, &ldquo;So I am supposed to spend my whole life just taking it?&rdquo;</p>